Tooele - Joseph Lappi wakes up two of his daughters, Lillian (left) and Daria (right) at 5:24am to get them ready for the day. Lappi came back from serving in Iraq to find his wife pregnant with another man's child and himself the sole caretaker for his four children. Oldest to youngest: Joseph Lappi Jr, Daria Lappi , Lillian Lappi , and Sophie Lappi .