Tooele - Joseph Lappi loads his kids into a minivan in the pre-dawn darkness, preparing to take them to school and daycare. Left to right, Sophie, Joesph, Joseph Jr, and Lillian Lappi. . Lappi came back from serving in Iraq to find his wife pregnant with another man's child and himself the sole caretaker for his four children. Oldest to youngest: Joseph Lappi Jr, Daria Lappi , Lillian Lappi , and Sophie Lappi .